Why Table Setting Is Important
You may be wondering, “Why bother learning the correct way to position plates and silverware? The food will taste the same either way!” Here’s why: It signals to guests who do appreciate proper table settings that their feelings are important to you. You’ll be setting an overall tone—that it’s your pleasure to dine with them. Also, a properly set table can make the food itself look better.
Basic Table Setting
If you’re getting things ready for an everyday dinner or a weekend breakfast, you might want to know how to set a table properly. For casual events, one needs just a basic table setting: a placemat, cutlery (fork, knife, and spoon), a dinner plate, a water glass, and a napkin. Basic Table Setting Instructions Basic Table Setting Etiquette Tips If you prefer, it is acceptable to set the napkin on top of the plate in a basic table setting, though some think this can create a more formal feeling. Now that you know the basic table setting rules, brush up on your table etiquette.
How to Set a Casual Table
Knowing how to set a casual table will come in handy when you’re tasked with knowing how to set an informal table for a get-together or a laid-back dinner party. Essentially, the basic table setting, above, and the casual table setting are nearly identical, but in a casual table setting, there is the addition of a soup bowl and a dinner plate. As a general rule, only set out the glassware, tableware, and flatware that you’re going to be using. If you’re not having a salad course, all you need to set is a dinner fork. If you’re only serving white wine, a red wine glass is not needed. And if there’s no soup course, skip the soup bowl and spoon. Chargers are generally reserved for more formal place settings, but Real Simple home editor Stephanie Sisco says you can still use a charger in a casual table setting if you wish—just make sure it’s fashioned in a more laid-back style, like raw wood. Casual Table Setting Instructions Casual Table Setting Etiquette Tips If using individual salt and pepper shakers for each guest, place them at the top of the placemat. Otherwise, place them near the center of the table, or, if using a long, rectangular table, place them in the middle of each end. Mastered how to set a casual dinner table, but need a refresher on what else you should keep in mind for your casual dinner party? Here, six tips on how to throw excellent parties.
How to Set a Formal Dinner Table
If you’re hosting an elegant dinner party, you might want to know how to set a table for a three-course meal. Real Simple home editor Stephanie Sisco says the biggest difference between a casual table and a formal table is the use of chargers, also known as presentation plates. Traditionally, formal place settings also tend to forgo placemats, but she says you can opt to use a round placemat underneath a charger for an even more formal look. A formal table setting includes many pieces: a tablecloth, chargers, dinner plates, soup bowls, salad plates, bread plates, napkins, salad forks, dinner forks, knives, soup spoons, butter knives, dessert spoons, water glasses, red wine glasses, and white wine glasses. Though this may sound overwhelming, if you know how to set a casual table, it’s a very easy leap to knowing how to set a table with charger plates. To see all of this in motion, check out this video on how to lay out a proper table setting. Formal Dinner Table Setting Instructions Formal Table Setting Etiquette Tips After the soup course is complete and the bowls are cleared, a salad plate will take the soup bowl’s position. Traditionally, a charger holds the spot for the dinner plate, and is removed after the salad course so the place is never bare. If you do not want to clear the table after the soup course and bring out dinner plates, you can place a dinner plate on top of the charger.
